The conflict between knowing and being able to escape.

Do you acknowledge that this relationship hurts you, however, the difficulty of leaving such an abusive relationship is real.

You realize that something is not right..

Even so… leaving seems impossible..

And then comes the blame.

There's a feeling that perhaps the problem is you.

The idea that you are being weak.

The impression that you are failing because you can't put a stop to it..

But is that really the case that you are weak??

Or is it that what's holding you back... is fear?

When fear resides in the body.

Real fear.

Fear of not survive, of not being able to take care of yourself.
Or to have no ground or because you couldn't bear the pain.

This fear is not an exaggeration.

It lives in the body, not just in the mind.

It all started back then, when you learned that, in order to not to be abandoned, you needed to please, to give in, to accept.

Even when it hurt.

The inner child is still trying to survive.

There, you learned that your survival depended on the other person.

And today, even as an adult, your body still reacts as if you were that same child trying to be loved at any cost..

That's why the shame appears.

Do you feel wrong because you can't leave a place that hurts you.

You feel insufficient, as if it were failing once again.

The shame that isn't yours.

But this shame isn't yours.

It was placed on you, along with humiliations that had to be swallowed in silence..

And, however much it may seem today impossible to escape from it, there is a way out.

The beginning of the reconstruction.

A path of internal reconstruction.

From beginning to feel your own emotions with security.

Learning to saying no and learn to say yes!

To meet again who you are, without needing to adapt to or to fit into anybody.

Support to break the cycle.

You don't need to managing everything on your own.

With support, care and loving presence,
it is possible to break out of this cycle.

And when this movement begins…

what previously seemed impossible starts to look like possible.

You are not alone..

There is way out.
There is path.

And you deserve to experience something lighter and more truthful.